Fraternity-Testvériség, 1963 (40. évfolyam, 1-12. szám)
1963-01-01 / 1. szám
2 FRATERNITY we, everywhere and in all things, look for approbation and special favors? Is it not true that what is said about our demeanor and achievements is the most important to us? We blush from shame; we tremble when an obstacle blocks our path! We regard people’s judgment with apprehension and look longingly for praise. We become irritated when we realize that our influence shows signs of shredding; that whom we thought were our friends have forsaken us. It hurts when faces turn away upon mention of our name or accomplishments; or when ill-bred, selfish, vengeful persons persecute us with slander and suspicion. We are dejected when poor ignorant people — who are in hasty need of eye surgery for the removal of a “beam” — tonguelash, insult and grieve us . . . And yet, if we know in our hearts that we have fulfilled our greatest duty and have become blessings according to the will of God, through the Master, then joy will replace torment because Jesus said, “Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you and persecute you and say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake . . . Rejoice, and be exceedingly glad; for great is your reward in heaven.” (Matthew V: 11-12.) Let us not look for man’s recognition and praise, rather for approbation from God . . . this year also! In the mirror of these thoughts we can see before us the great, marvelous and edifying challenges of the New Year, as well as our prime duty in life: to be blessings. Looking into this mirror, the hearts of all workers and members of the Hungarian Reformed Federation must become filled with gratitude for the boundless grace and infinite blessings with which the past year was crowned — unworthy though we have been. It is certain to follow that with the honest pursuit of these thoughts comes the promise that God’s bigger and richer gifts and blessings are yet to come. Let us work, pray and bring sacrifice for these together . . . with one accord. JOSEPH KECSKEMETHY "HOW TO PUT YOURSELF ACROSS” IN EIGHT SIMPLE RULES 1. Remember people’s names. 2. Encourage others to talk. 3. Be sincere when you pay a compliment. 4. Make people feel important . . . talk their language. 5. Stick to the best topic . . . the other fellow. 6. Think twice, then speak once. 7. Discuss anything . . . but never argue. 8. Talk weddings, not funerals.
